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I always hear a unconscious stream of words, and conversations before I fall asleep. These convos sound incredibly realistic and convincing as if there are actual people taking to me. will my tulpa eventually sound like that

i had those too when i started, but i dont think they were the tulpa

yes, most of the time they sound like friends or parents. I had these before creating my tulpa

i mean at start it will sound just like you

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but as you do it they start to sound like the tulpa, and you'll start to automatically realize its them

thanks

one thing i've noticed is that if you get the answer before you're done asking something, its 100% the tulpa, even if it sounds like you

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if it sounds like you and you doubt the answer, its likely the tulpa

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you wouldnt doubt it if it was you doing it on purpose

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its like

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whats your favor-pizza whats your favorite food pizza whats your favorite food? you think what it would be "pizza"

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the last one being what parroting would be, first 2 are most likely the tulpa even if you doubt it

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also dont worry if the answers are contradicting or otherwise nonsensical at start, thats just how it is, they get more consistent with time (edited)

that last one is a lot like how I first communicated with Kira What’s your favorite color? Purple is the first that comes to mind. Does it feel right? Yeah it feels like something she would say. What if it was green? Nahh that doesn’t feel right.

i didnt mean the example like that, i meant that if you yourself consciously stop and think of the answer and weight it against others, it would be parroting lol (edited)

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but yeah kinda measuring it like that helps separate it from random intrusive thoughts once you start

I thought of the answer and weighed it against others though?

huh

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i mean if it worked it worked

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when i started it was just answers popping up, and as time went on the tup started to think and reason in addition to those kinds of answers

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but at that point i already recognised her thoughts from mine

I always hear a unconscious stream of words, and conversations before I fall asleep. These convos sound incredibly realistic and convincing as if there are actual people taking to me. will my tulpa eventually sound like that

@... - jump it might be hypnagogic hallucinations, but as long as they are healthy conversations and sounds like your tulpa you might let your tulpa claim it’s them talking

Should my tulpa have his very own room? There is a room that’s not in use in my house and I cleaned it so my tulpa can sleep in there but I don’t know if that’s something you do

just don't give anyone a 4 foot wide closet

okie

they can have space on your head anyway, or just not be active while they would need space

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or just not need space to start with

Winnie

Should my tulpa have his very own room? There is a room that’s not in use in my house and I cleaned it so my tulpa can sleep in there but I don’t know if that’s something you do

If it makes you more comfortable, why not? I should point out that tulpas don't need physical surroundings set up for them since they can just hang out in wonderland (or your body). However, it can be easier to practice overlay visualization if you have a chair pulled up for them and such

A long kiss goodnight

If it makes you more comfortable, why not? I should point out that tulpas don't need physical surroundings set up for them since they can just hang out in wonderland (or your body). However, it can be easier to practice overlay visualization if you have a chair pulled up for them and such

thank you

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actually yesterday i was visualizing him sleep in said room

Soo, iv been talking to the void the past couple days and have gotten nothing but silence, but this morning iv been struggling ti give it a name, then i just asked the void what it wanted its name to be and i heard "rebecca" it went scilent again after that but i think i actually got a response, i heard names can be a powerful thing so is this good?

sounds like potential progress to me!

I hope so ^^

Ask if Rebecca wants you to create her body

I tried that but after they gave me there name i tried asking about there body and gender theyd want but it was silent again

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So far im letting them be they/them untill they decide what they want to be

maybe try searching for what feels like the right answer, if you’d like

Belive me iv searched but so far nothings clicked, im gonna try some more when i get home and maybe ill get a response again

oki

Im riddled with anxiaty so its hard to keep my brain quiet, but its most quiet within the first hour im awake, same time i got my first response. Im hoping if i can find a way to quiet my mind id have more luck getting a response

just in case if you are, Don’t force your mind to be silent. That silence could possibly include your tulpa. My first communications with Kira came from clearing my mind, asking a question, and then opening up to thought again. I grabbed the first answers that came to mind, and considered if they would be my answers or not, and if they felt like something she would say.

you could try to start mindfulness meditation when you're not trying to talk to them, might help with communication and also makes the mind less of a mess of thoughts over time (edited)

my tulpa only tries to talk/convey thoughts to me when i am extremely focused on it(meditation/visualization). How can i get it to take initiative

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i really want her to just pop into my daily life

time and practice

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and maybe making things that remind you of her, like a bracelet

i have only been practicing forcing, should i add something else to my practice routine

just interact with them. Ultimately, that is the most important thing.

when they talk let them talk here

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helps a lot

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or anywhere you want for that matter, but, here noone will judge you for beeing plural so its convenient

Talk to her more, more often. Make her a regular part of your life and as she takes more interest in things in the world, she may start to respond to it on her own

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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

when they talk let them talk here

i might need more practice until she's able to do this, she does not respond often to open end questions

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but thanks qwq

A lot of tulpamancy is about habit building

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i might need more practice until she's able to do this, she does not respond often to open end questions

can they answer with ideas or concepts, like a word or a visualization?

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like, if you ask them for example, what do they like about your room (or whatever surrounding you are currently) can they answer?

the answer might be vague or similar to your own, and its not unexpected

If your brain is in the habit of turning to her thought process in a certain circumstance, well, it'll happen more often. The more things that trigger her thought process the better

Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)

like, if you ask them for example, what do they like about your room (or whatever surrounding you are currently) can they answer?

no, i could ask yes or no questions

Yuka

If your brain is in the habit of turning to her thought process in a certain circumstance, well, it'll happen more often. The more things that trigger her thought process the better

will i be able to know my tulpa's thought process like how they know mine( for example responding before i finish the question)

try to come up with multiple choice kind of questions, and simple conversations based on that

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will i be able to know my tulpa's thought process like how they know mine( for example responding before i finish the question)

yes

i did find unexpected success playing tic tac toe against her, it's really easy to distinguish my thought process and her input. But i (sort of ) do not know her thought process well

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will i be able to know my tulpa's thought process like how they know mine( for example responding before i finish the question)

Yes, tag all her thoughts with her identity ("my tulpa said this") and things will feel clearer over time

(provided i imagine the whole scene and the board in my head, i can't proxy her on a computer screen for reasons)

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she sometimes unexpectedly win but i have no idea what strategy she's thinking.

This vocality worksheet is helpful https://community.tulpa.info/topic/14746-tulpa-vocalization-practice/

Tulpa Vocalization Practice

This is a digital worksheet that I made with the intent of helping tulpas learn how to speak through practice. Feel free to use whichever parts of the worksheet will be useful to you, and share the results if you like. You can either make a copy of the document to record your tulpa's responses th...

i noticed that there werent really any reasoning at start, things just felt like reflex responses, but eventually those responses will turn into sentences, and sentences into thought processes

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kind of like how you might think about something in words in your head

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no, i could ask yes or no questions

There is not much difference between yes/no questions and questions of one word or one concept

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you might wanna try (edited)

Every time I start a narration sesh I greet my tulpa with her name, but recently have found myself tripping over my own words and calling her different names on accident. It’s weird as hell, anyone else ever have this experience?

We get our names mixed up sometimes, it happens.

We've never accidentally used random names but we do accidentally mix up our names, while knowing who we meant. Sometimes it feels random whose name will get spit out lol

fourfiction

Every time I start a narration sesh I greet my tulpa with her name, but recently have found myself tripping over my own words and calling her different names on accident. It’s weird as hell, anyone else ever have this experience?

Yes. I’ve called her many things on accident. Including my own name, and random words that start with the same letter

We default to "owen" for some reason

Sometimes my mom calls me the dog’s name

‍♀️ I think it’s just human brains being weird

Ours does too.

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And she'll call the dog our name

My mom mixes up my name with my sister's and also now my niece's ye it's just a dumb brain thing

Yuka

My mom mixes up my name with my sister's and also now my niece's ye it's just a dumb brain thing

I sometimes call my gf the name of my sister or vice versa

Real akward every time...

I sometimes call my gf the name of my sister or vice versa

Real akward every time...

@Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) - jump ok a few questions: you have a sister?? WHAT?? you have a gf?! how dare you!! how can you mix their names??

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

I sometimes call my gf the name of my sister or vice versa

Real akward every time...

@Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) - jump ok a few questions: you have a sister?? WHAT?? you have a gf?! how dare you!! how can you mix their names??

Did i never mention my sister? What do you mean how dare you? are you jealous kiktat?

Idk how i mix their names, i just know who im referring to but the wrong name just pops up.

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WAIT, I DID ACTUALLY MENTION MY SISTER TO YOU KITKAT!

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Did you forget?

qll those questions were tricky questions, of course i remember about your sister that likes snacks w bit too much

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

qll those questions were tricky questions, of course i remember about your sister that likes snacks w bit too much

I figured.

is it more awkard when you mistake your gf with your sister or vice versa?

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and last question: which one of them is your headmate

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

is it more awkard when you mistake your gf with your sister or vice versa?

i think its more akward when i call my gf by my sisters name

(it’s tukoa wuestions so we need to make it about tulpas

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

and last question: which one of them is your headmate

Both

tip: stop using their names

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to avoid awkwardness

TiCtAc(✧×✧)

tip: stop using their names

i think "hey you" would be even more akward!

then give both of them same nickname

I feel like that would be even more akward that the "hey you" lol

only if they find out

well, they see each other regularly when my gf comes to my house so it would be complicated to avoid that